Can Dogs Help You Find Love or, at least, Help You Get a Date? Here's what the Research Says. . .
If you’re a dog person and you happen to be “Single but looking,” then you’re already aware of just how important it is to find a partner that will love your dog(s) and future dog(s) as much as you do.
Why? Because having a dog in your home is an entire lifestyle!
Not only have you spent time adapting your schedule to best suit your canine best friend, but every outing, work event, and vacation has to be meticulously planned so that your furry companion is always 100% cared for and living their best life. If you are considering forming a partnership with someone who doesn’t understand why you go to such extremes to make accommodations for your dog, then it’s definitely time to “swipe left.”
But that leads us to another question that the movie 101 Dalmations has left many dog owners wondering: can dogs help you find your true love?
According to a recent survey by Dog Trust, dog can help us find love!
A team of researchers found that 60% of participants felt that owning a dog made a person feel more attractive and a whopping 85% of respondents said that a person with a dog was far more approachable than someone without a dog. To build off that, another study that asked volunteers to rate people based on photographs found that they ranked someone as happier, safer and more relaxed when they appeared with a dog.
Going even further, a survey completed by Match.com and Petsmart charities found that 59% of singles agreed that out of prospective partners who had a pet, specifically dogs, it was more attractive when that individual had adopted that dog rather than purchased it from a store or breeder (2).
Ultimately, there’s ample research to demonstrate that the messages sent by dog ownership influence others’ judgement and behaviour.
What research shows about dogs helping find us love
1. Dogs increase social interaction
Research has shown that owning a dog can significantly increase social interaction. When you take your dog for walks or to the park, you’re likely to encounter other dog owners or people who simply adore dogs. This opens up opportunities for conversation and potentially finding a romantic connection.
2. Dogs reduce stress
Spending time with dogs has been scientifically proven to reduce stress levels. When we’re relaxed, we’re more open to forming connections and getting to know others. By having a dog, you create an environment that promotes positive interactions and the potential for romance.
3. Dogs make us happier
Dogs have an undeniable ability to bring joy and happiness into our lives. When we’re happy, we radiate positive energy and become more attractive to others. Happiness is contagious, and having a dog as a companion increases our overall happiness, making us more inclined to find love.
So what is it about owning a dog that seems to make someone look more attractive, or at least more trustworthy?
There are a lot of variables that could be considered, including that:
- A certain level of care and empathy comes with caring for a dog long-term
- Properly caring for a dog shows some level of responsibility and maturity
- We see a correlation between caring for a dog and caring for children
- A common interest takes some of the awkwardness out of your initial interactions
- Having a dog brings out a sense of confidence in individuals
- Dogs tend to run the show, which means their human counterparts are often more laid back and easy-going when it comes to planning and activities
How do dog owners benefit in finding love?
1. Dogs help us build trust
Having a dog can help build trust in a relationship. Dogs are known for their loyalty and unconditional love, and witnessing this bond can make potential partners more willing to trust and commit to a relationship.
2. Dogs provide emotional support
Dogs offer unparalleled emotional support. They are always there to listen, comfort, and provide a sense of security. This emotional connection can enhance our well-being and make us more appealing to potential partners who value compassion and understanding.
3. Dogs make us more responsible
Owning a dog comes with a set of responsibilities, such as feeding, grooming, and regular exercise. Taking care of a dog shows that you are capable of commitment and responsibility, qualities that are highly valued in a partner.
How to utilize dog-related activities to find love?
1. Take your dog for walks in popular places
One of the easiest ways to meet new people is by taking your dog for walks in popular areas such as parks or dog-friendly beaches. Dog owners tend to be more open to striking up conversations, and you might just meet someone special while strolling with your furry friend.
2. Join dog-related events and meet fellow dog lovers
Another great way to connect with potential partners who share your love for dogs is by joining dog-related events or activities. Look for local dog shows, charity events, or training classes where dog enthusiasts gather. This provides an excellent opportunity to bond over a shared interest and potentially find a partner.
3. Use dog-related apps and websites to meet potential partners
In this digital age, there are specialized dating apps and websites designed for dog lovers. These platforms allow you to connect with like-minded individuals who understand and appreciate the joy of having a dog. Explore these options and start swiping right to find your perfect match.
The Bottom Line
In all seriousness, having a dog in your life may not be the key ingredient necessary for you to find your soulmate; however, there are a lot of benefits that sharing your life with a dog can have while you’re dating or looking for that special someone.
You’ll be out and about more, so the chances of bumping into someone and feeling some sparks fly (in a good way) are more likely. You’ll also be showing others around you that you are a responsible dog owner with a level of parental instincts. And just as dogs bring out confidence in individuals you might be interested in, they’re also bringing out a level of confidence in you, which goes a long way in the current dating scene.
Ultimately, if you love dogs, it only makes sense that you seek friendship and love from others who also love dogs. (Anyone else reminiscing about that movie with Diane Lane and John Cusack? Must Love Dogs!) Not only can that make get-togethers or even combining households easier, but there’s already an understanding that schedules will be adjusted based on your dogs’ needs. In addition, when you partner with someone long-term, there’s a level of relief that comes from knowing someone else has your furry best friend’s interests at heart.
